Which of the 30 archetypes are you?
A free quiz that names how you love. One of thirty archetypes, across six levels. Built for people who are single and dating.
What it is
Most quizzes tell you what you already know. This one tells you something you can use.
Answer the questions. Get your archetype: the specific way you show up when you are dating, falling, reaching, holding back. Then get a card you can actually share.
It is free. It stays free.
Take the quiz
Fifty-four questions about how you actually behave when you are dating. Answer fast. Answer honestly.
Meet your archetype
See where you land across the six levels, and the one of thirty archetypes that is you.
Share your card
Send your card to the people who know you. See who recognizes you on sight.
Six levels of love
From protection at the bottom to shared rhythm at the top. Your top two levels make your archetype.
The thirty archetypes
Six levels. Five archetypes each. One of these lines is you.
Level 6. Love as Shared Rhythm
You don't chase. You choose.
When you're in, you're in. They feel it on day one.
You're what people picture when they imagine getting it right.
They didn't see you coming. They never quite recovered.
You're easy to imagine. Harder to reach.
Level 5. Love as Partnership
You fall like weather. They never forget it.
You're who they tell people they got right.
You make love look effortless. The right people see the effort.
You're not slow to want. You're slow to show it.
People exhale around you. They cannot always say why.
Level 4. Love as Mutual Care
Being with you feels like coming home. They didn't know they were homesick.
You show up when it matters. They never have to ask.
You don't perform love. You do it.
You don't do mild. They figure that out.
You give more than people notice. You ask for less than they realize.
Level 3. Love as Self-Development
You don't fall into love. You frame it out.
You read as the answer. Most days, you are.
You're what people describe as having it together. Usually you do.
You don't soften. You sharpen.
You're still catching up to the version they already see.
Level 2. Love as Desire
You don't ease into love. You arrive.
You take the wheel. They let you.
You feel it bigger than the room. They feel it through you.
Your relationships have plots. People want to be in them.
You don't pursue halfway. You don't retreat halfway either.
Level 1. Love as Protection
You've loved more people from a distance than most love up close.
Close enough to love to feel it. Not close enough to stay.
You love in ways people notice too late.
You take care of everyone. The right one cares back.
You feel deeply. You move rarely.
One of them is you.
If a line landed and you want the full read, there are two paid options. The quiz stays free either way.
$9.99 The full self-report. Seven pages, written for your archetype. Where you stand today, your primary and secondary levels, how they combine, five things worth working on, and the patterns you keep repeating in who you reach for.
$19.99 The Relationship Dynamics Report. The two Natural Matches built for long-term flow with you, and the one Wildcard Match you would have crossed out on paper. Why they fit, and how to recognize them in the room.